What We Do With the Ache

poem by: Joshua JayShades Legister
Written on Jan 08, 2026

He said, “I’ve got this,”
the way young men do
When the world has cracked them
and they’re still learning
how to hold the pieces without bleeding.

Sixteen going on seventeen,
twenty days from another number
that won’t protect him
from his first real betrayal.

So I listened
not just to the words,
but to the heat behind them.
The kind that wants to prove something.
The kind that can ruin futures
if it isn’t guided somewhere safer.

I didn’t lecture.
I didn’t shout.
I took him somewhere ordinary
felt tables, chalk dust,
a pub that remembered me kindly.

Pool balls clicked.
A stranger joined us.
A lesson became laughter.
Laughter became breath again.

One cider
not to forget,
but to pause.
Wings and chips from a place
you only learn about
when life’s been long enough
to know shortcuts matter.

We ate.
We talked.
I told him the truth
that pain doesn’t make you weak,
but what you do next
decides the man you become.

I told him how heartbreak
can sharpen you
or hollow you.
How anger is energy,
and discipline is direction.

And then
he laughed.
Not polite laughter.
Belly laughter.
The kind that reminds you
someone is still here.

In that moment,
every doubt I’d carried
about being enough
went quiet.

This is how it’s done.
Not by shielding them from pain,
but by walking beside them through it.

Some wounds are lessons.
Some nights are bridges.
And some fathers learn
watching their sons heal
that they were always
worthy of the title.

 

Tags: Happy, Inspirational, Hope, Wishful, Deep,

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Roxanne Dubarry commented on Jan 12, 2026 at 6:05pm
What sound advice for other young men to adhere to. Walking others through our pain and our hardships young women can also follow. I have a very special friend, Jesus Christ, who walks besides me both in my good times, in between times and in my bad times as well.

 

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